Valentine’s Day can feel overwhelming for those not in a romantic state of mind. For those who prefer to celebrate their independence rather than indulge in love-themed festivities, a selection of anti-Valentine’s Day cocktails might be just the answer.

Love & Murder

At O Bar in Oklahoma City, the Love & Murder cocktail combines Campari, green chartreuse, lime, simple syrup, and salt in a martini glass. It’s a drink to toast to being single while appreciating its bitter-sweet charm.

She’s A Lady

The She’s A Lady cocktail at The Family Jones Spirit House in Denver features a spirited mix of vodka, dry vermouth, pickled carrot, and celery bitters. This bold drink offers a refreshing take on the classic Dirty Martini, ideal for those who refuse to conform to romance.

Buy Yourself Flowers

At Parker Rooftop in Vancouver, the Buy Yourself Flowers cocktail mixes Bombay Sapphire Gin with elderflower liqueur, lime, thyme, and tonic. This drink is centered around self-love and the joy of treating oneself.

Bitter Lover

In Jersey City, Bitter Lover at 143 Social is a striking combination of star anise-infused tequila and Cynar Amaro, sweetened with blood orange agave and fresh lemon. It’s a sophisticated choice for bitterness.

Jazz Age Smolder

Tell Your Friends in Scottsdale serves the Jazz Age Smolder, a cocktail that fuses rich Scotch with amaro and maple, enhanced with cinnamon and citrus smoke to create a theatrical experience.

Dragon Of The Winds

At Blu on the Hudson in New Jersey, the Dragon Of The Winds cocktail harmonizes dark rum, amaro, maple syrup, and lemon for a bittersweet yet invigorating experience.

Je T’aime, Je Ne T’aime Pas

One K Miami presents the Je T’aime, Je Ne T’aime Pas cocktail, mixing Patrón Reposado with strawberry rhubarb and grapefruit soda. It embodies the turbulent nature of love.

Black Widow

The Black Widow at Red Lantern in Foxwoods blends Kraken Black Spiced Rum with pineapple and nutmeg, a perfect choice for those looking for warmth in their cocktails.

Blues for Breakfast

At 80 Proof in Jackson Hole, the Blues for Breakfast cocktail combines Laphroaig Scotch, orange juice, and honey syrup, influenced by the legendary figures of Winston Churchill and Bob Dylan.

Strawberry Heartbreaker

Seamark Seafood in Everett presents the Strawberry Heartbreaker, a smoky margarita crafted with tequila, mezcal, strawberry, and lime—designed for independent spirits.

Boy, Bye

In Detroit, Shift Kitchen & Cocktails offers the Boy, Bye, a cocktail that champions individuality with fresh flavors of watermelon and mint, perfect for celebrating one’s own company.

Bitter Hearts

Morimoto Asia in Disney Springs has the Bitter Hearts, featuring a blend of gin, shōchū, pomegranate, and lemon juice, providing a refreshing escape from Valentine’s Day celebrations.

No Strings Spritz

Sixty Vines presents the No Strings Spritz, a playful cocktail with gin, raspberries, and honey, representing carefree fun.

Saltbae Sour

Nusr-Et Steakhouse offers the Saltbae Sour, a contemporary twist on a classic sour using premium whiskey and spices for a memorable flavor.

I Can Love Me Better

Lastly, at The Stand in New York City, the I Can Love Me Better cocktail captures the essence of self-empowerment, mixing dark spirits with fresh flavors for a vibrant experience.

These cocktails not only celebrate the spirit of independence but also offer delightful flavors that encourage savoring the moment—whether alone or with friends.